Let me tell you something real: life be lifin’.

Bills. Bodies aching. People playing in your face. Groceries somehow cost $300 and you still forgot the onions. And don’t even get me started on the “check on your strong friends” phase because baby, I am the strong friend and life gets exhausting.

But even here, especially here… I’ve learned to choose ease. Not the passive kind, but the rebellious, radical kind. The kind that says: “I’m not going to stress myself into sickness just to prove I’m strong.”

Ease is a spiritual frequency.

Not laziness. Not avoidance. Not denial.

Ease is the rhythm of your divine alignment. It’s the way your shoulders drop when you remember God already went ahead of you. It’s what happens when you unclench your jaw, soften your belly, and stop trying to carry everything by yourself. Whew.

Because real power isn’t loud. It’s aligned.

It shows up moisturized, unbothered, fed, and prayed up.

It’s sensual. Surrendered. Satisfied.

And no, it doesn’t explain itself.

Soft Power is Not Optional. It’s Sacred Strategy.

You ever notice how people respect you more when you stop over explaining yourself? That’s not attitude. That’s alignment. When you’re walking in your divine rhythm, your presence becomes a sermon. Your silence becomes a sanctuary. Your softness becomes your charm.

The world doesn’t need you hard, frantic, or performative.

God doesn’t either.

Ease is not the absence of adversity, ease is what wraps itself around you in spite of adversity and says:

“You are still worthy of pleasure. You are still safe to rest. You are still her.”

It’s wild how something as divine as ease can feel like rebellion when life’s been a battlefield. You wake up with a hundred tabs open in your mind, heart heavy from unspoken expectations, and somehow still feel guilty for wanting peace. But ease? Ease is not laziness. Ease is choosing softness in a world that keeps trying to harden you. It’s that audacious decision to take a breath before replying, to rest without explaining, to smile without armor. And yes, it’s hard because ease asks you to trust that your worth isn’t earned by suffering. But when you let yourself have it anyway? Even for a moment? That’s God reminding you: you were never meant to prove your power through pain. You were meant to reign in grace.

🍷 So Here’s What I Know from experience :

💌 Ease feels like being unbothered even when chaos tries you.

💌 Ease is choosing the slower route and watching time bend for you anyway.

💌 It’s in your shoulders when you finally stop carrying other people’s guilt.

💌 Ease is orgasms without shame, rest without guilt, and boundaries without backpedaling.

💌 It’s canceling plans without panic.

💌 It’s breathing like you’re not being watched.

💌 Ease is not lazy. It’s luxurious.

💌 Your nervous system isn’t built for survival mode anymore. Ease is your new alignment.

💌 You can be in the middle of a heartbreak and still romanticize your life.

💌 You can be in between blessings and still be a walking miracle.

💌 You can be healing and horny, grieving and glowing, weeping and winning…all at the same time.

Let me say this with my whole chest: I don’t have to hustle for peace I already own. My ease is not up for negotiation. It is the throne I sit on, the silk I wrap around my soul, the oxygen that reminds me I am alive and divine. Ease is not weakness, it’s wisdom. It’s the flex of knowing I don’t have to overgive, overthink, or overstretch to be seen, valued, or loved. I move slow because my presence is potent. I rest because my spirit is royal. I don’t chase, I attract, and I don’t beg..I bless. Being at ease is the loudest luxury in a world addicted to chaos. And baby, I wear it like a crown.

You don’t have to wait for ease.

Ease is not a reward. It’s a birthright.

And baby, it already lives in you.

Matthew 11:28-30 (NIV):

“Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.

Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart,

and you will find rest for your souls.

For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.”

This is divine permission. Ease is not just allowed, it’s ordained. You were never meant to carry it all alone. Let your rest be holy. Let your ease be sacred. Let your trust, faith of a mustard seed, perseverance & peace amongst chaos be proof that you’re aligned with God above all else, no matter what that looks like to anyone else.