Let’s talk glow up on a budget because being glammed shouldn’t break the bank. Whether you’re heading to brunch, a date night, or just want to feel good, the Paris Hilton “Dreamy Daze” 39-Piece Face & Eye Palette is an affordable, underrated gem that deserves a front row spot in your makeup stash. As a… Read more: Budget Beauty, But Make It Iconic: Paris Hilton’s “Dreamy Daze” Palette Review

There are moments that never leave you. They don’t fade. They don’t dull. They just bury themselves in the bones of who you are and whisper from the marrow, “Remember me.” I’m not writing this for sympathy. I’m writing this because sometimes the only way to keep breathing is to give the grief somewhere to… Read more: Note2Self: The Grief That Won’t Let Go. Notes From a Mother Who’s Still Here

Let me tell you something real: life be lifin’. Bills. Bodies aching. People playing in your face. Groceries somehow cost $300 and you still forgot the onions. And don’t even get me started on the “check on your strong friends” phase because baby, I am the strong friend and life gets exhausting. But even here,… Read more: Note2Self: Ease, Even Here. A Love Letter to Pleasure in the Midst of Chaos

I used to write whole paragraphs defending why I felt what I felt. I used to twist my tongue trying to translate my magic to people who had no business interpreting it. I’d second guess my “no,” over explain my joy, soften my edges to make other people comfortable. And then one morning, I woke… Read more: Note2Self: The moment you stop explaining yourself , Your presence starts to speak for you.

There was nothing special about this morning. I grabbed a plastic water bottle. The sun peeked through a half-closed blind. A song I loved years ago started playing, uninvited, but perfectly timed. And I paused, just long enough to let it feel cinematic. I wasn’t wearing anything extravagant. My bonnet was still on. My oversized… Read more: Note2Self: Romanticize or Rot. The Sacred Power of Seeing Beauty in the Ordinary 

There’s a moment every woman meets, the exact second she realizes: She’s been settling. Dimming. Shrinking her gold into glitter just to make people comfortable. And for what? So they could almost choose her? Almost support her? Almost see her? Let’s be clear: You were never meant to beg. You were meant to be revered.… Read more: Note2Self: You Were Never Meant to Beg. 

Note2Self 💌: There’s no rush. The becoming is the blessing. Let today be gentle. Let it hold you. You are not behind, broken, or too late. You are a blooming story still unfolding and God is not finished with you yet.

Some of us weren’t born into royalty, we were refined into it. We were called to be the voice, the vessel, the victory. This isn’t just about being seen. It’s about being sent.

Today, I had to remind myself — I don’t have to chase my purpose. I am my purpose. Even in the moments where I feel in-between versions of myself… when I’m not quite who I used to be, but not yet fully who I’m becoming… God still sees the full picture. He’s not asking me… Read more: Note2Self: God Already Knew Who I Was Becoming

This Month I turned 33. And this just wasn’t just another birthday, the theme for me lately has been nurturing the sacredness of my evolution.  As a Life Path 11, I’ve always carried the weight of deeper purpose. But this year, something feels different. I’m not just being called to feel the shift — I’m… Read more: Note2Self: Shine, even if your voice shakes. You are not too much. You are the light someone’s been praying to see.

 I want to dive into something deeply personal yet universally relatable—the beautiful but sometimes messy journey of transitioning and closing out eras to embrace a radiant rebirth.  You know, life is a series of transitions—like seasons changing or the latest fashion trends (because let’s be real, we all know how quickly those can shift!). Just… Read more: Note2Self: Embrace the Rebirth while Pivoting 

In the enchanting world of literature, certain stories resonate deeply and offer valuable insights into our own lives. One such tale is one of my FAVORITE beloved books “Ella Enchanted” by Gail Carson Levine. While it may be categorized as a fairy tale, this story holds a powerful lesson about the dangers and consequences of… Read more: Unveiling the Lessons of People Pleasing in the Book Ella Enchanted

In a world that often seeks external validation, the concept of self-validation might seem foreign or even unnecessary in this day & age. We tend to seek approval, recognition, and acceptance from others, placing our sense of self-worth in their hands. However, I have learned that the most empowering and liberating validation comes from within… Read more: Note2self Embrace your own worth : The power of self validation.

Autism, a complex neurodevelopmental disorder, not only affects the individuals diagnosed but also has a profound impact on their families. From the moment of diagnosis, my family embarked on a unique journey that presents both challenges and opportunities for growth. In this Note2self post, I will highlight the various ways I have experienced how an… Read more: Awesome living : Impact of Autism Diagnosis on Families

The story of Queen Esther from the Bible is a captivating narrative of a young woman who utilized her beauty and intuition to overcome immense hardships. Through her courage and wisdom, she became an embodiment of strength and resilience, leaving behind a legacy that continues to inspire generations. This story in the Bible has always… Read more: Hidden in plain sight for such a time as this! Queen Esther: A Tale of Beauty, Intuition, and Overcoming Hardships

In a world that often overlooks and undervalues the experiences of Black individuals, it becomes crucial for me to embrace and nurture every aspect of my being. One such aspect is the divine feminine energy that resides within us all. This energy is not limited to gender but encompasses a range of qualities such as… Read more: Embrace the Power Within: Nurturing My Divine Feminine as a Black Individual

Grieving the death of a child at the young age of 24 for me was an incredibly painful and complex experience that to this day has profound effects on my life. I have good & bad days but learning to go within and encourage myself through my days has helped me tremendously. Now at the… Read more: Living in a Daze (The reality of Grief in 3 phases.)

I mean, what’s not to love? Despite all of the dark things life has put you through, you have accomplished so much as far as growth. Start giving yourself more credit for all of the ways you have changed and grown in your life. Spiritually growing everyday as you are staying committed to challenging your… Read more: Note2Self: Keep Going Love

You need to chill out. Peace is not something you have to search hard for. When you really just need to chill. You are out here looking everywhere for peace only YOU can give & only YOU can bring. People say Know God, Know peace. Well, babygirl, sit with yourself as you are made in… Read more: Note2Self : Peace Is YOU